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[mayasofia]

Tällä menee päin veetä . Elämä tökkii: työ, terveys eikä vähiten kotona. En tiedä, mikä neuvoksi. Sitä vaan raahautuu päivästä toiseen ja toivoo ihmettä, itse ei jaksa tehdä mitään asioiden hyväksi.

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

But then there is Pluto the planet of transformations making 2009 a major period for significant changes in your relationships. The sexual limitations that you felt in 2008 are also completely going to disappear in 2009. The solar eclipse on 6th February 2009 and the Lunar eclipse on 16th August 2009 will be very important periods in 2009 where the Cancer will completely lose itself to pleasure and delight. But try not to get totally involved in sex and love since Neptune is moving in your 8th house of intimacy and making things totally confusing during this period.

Rapu

Rapu, on puhtaimmillaan turvallisuudentunne "jonnekin kuulumista" kuten esimerkiksi eheään kotiin jossa on täydelliset hoivaajat, äiti ja isä. Rapu on luonnollisimmallaan itse äidillinen hyvyys ja naisellinen sulokkuus.

Äidillisyys ilmenee myös miehissä suojaavana turvallisen lämpöisenä isällisyytenä. Rapu on se joka esimerkiksi työyhteisössä ottaa uuden tulokkaan lämpimästi vastaan. Hän kysyy kuulumiset ja jakaa äidillisiä/ isällisiä neuvojaan. Rapu kertakaikkiaan on vastustamoton kääriessään ihmiset lähellään eräänlaiseen turvallisuuden vaippaan ja saa näin muut ihmiset usein antautumaan itselleen lyhyenkin tuttavuuden jälkeen. Pettymyksiä on kuitenkin tulossa tuota pikaa jos Rapu ei ole itselleen rehellinen. Rapu antaa hoivaamisellaan aivan liian vahvan ja määrätietoisen kuvan itsestään kunnes hän itse oikeuttelevana hylkääkin äkkiä "lapsensa".

Ravun paradoksi: Intuitiivisesti Rapu tietää olevansa pelkkä fiilistelijä ja hyvä näyttelijä! Tunteet ovat vain eräänlaisia makuasioita! Mutta tuo totuudenmukainen oivallus hukkuu pian, uusiin tunnekuohuihin ja tunnetulviin jotka melkein hukuttavat Ravun. Tunteet ovat niin voimakkaita ja syliinsä kääriviä kokemuksia ettei Rapu kykene niitä vastustamaan josko aina edes haluisikaan ja niin ne vievät Ravun mennessään. Se turvallinen Rapu on tiessään. Mennyttä, muuttunut täysin etäiseksi ja oikulliseksi. Ravulla on ikäänkuin salaiset paheet - tunneriippuvuus!
Kun Rapun tuntemukset alkavat demonisesti dominoida ja ottaa päätäntävaltaa Ravun elämässä. Alkaa Rapu hamstrata tavaraa, ruokaa ja läheisyydenkokemuksia ja elää muistoissaan vetäen kaiken lähelleen. Alkaa hän samalla pöhöttyä sisäisesti ja vaarana on pudota syvälle suonsilmään, tunteiden hetteikössä. Rapu muuttuu humpuseksi, jättäen itsensä hoitamisen ja pesetymisen. Ja mikä pahinta, hän voi olla läheisilleen todellinen taakka. Ja mikä tuhoisinta, hän voi opettaa lapsensakin käyttämään tunteita väärin. Jättäen ne täysin käsittelemättä esimerkiksi alkoholin ja huumeiden avulla.
Tämä kohtaus muistuttaa erehdyttävästi alkoholismia, päideriippuvuutta, bulimiaa, anorexiaa, läheisriippuvuutta, itsesääliä jne..jne.. Vaikkei hän käyttäiskään alkoholia, vaikkei hänellä olisikaan vakavia syömishäiriöitä, oireet ovat kuitenkin samanlaisia tunnekoukkuja. Rapu kiukuttelee ahmimistaan tunteista joita on valtavasti ja jotka ovat usein täydellisessä epäjärjestyksessä. Ravun pelastus olisi oppia silloin nauramaan, omille kyvyilleen dramatisoida asiat mielttömiin mittoihin. Aitoja tunnekohtauksia tarvittaisiin elokuvien ja tarinoiden juonen käänteissä! Purkitettuja tunteita, itse testattuja - miltäs kuulostaa? Tosia-asia on se, että parhammat luonnenäyttelijät ovat Rapuvaikutteisia ihmisiä. Esimerkiksi heidän kuumerkkinsä tai nousumerkkinsä voi olla Ravun merkissä.

Mielenlaatu: Perusmielenlaatu on koti ja kodikkuus jota Rapu ilmentää suojelevalla, hoivaavalla ja ravitsevalla asenteellaan. Hän on usein "äidillisen" vaistonmaisesti tietoinen muiden perustarpeista siksi hän on autamassa jo ennekuin ihmiset osaavat niitä itse kaivata. Rapu-omainen ja Rapu-lähimmäinen kokoaa perheet ja suvut yhteen. Vaalii perinteitä ja pystyy parhaimmillaan rakentamaan eheän ja täydellisen kodinomaisen ilmapiirin, mihin vaan ja keille tahansa. Ravun tulisi oppia ettei pelkät tunteet riitä kommunikoinnin välineeksi, vaan asioista olisi kyetävä myös analysoimaan ja puhumaan niiden oikeilla nimillä. Katkeruutta siksi, että omakohtaisten tunteiden ennakkoasenteet pettävät ja h-hetki osoittautuukin toisenlaiseksi.

Rapu-puoliso: on perinteinen isä tai äiti idyllisessä ympäristössä. Yhteenkuuluvuuden tunteen aatetta tehostetaan vanhempien ja lapuudenkodin mallin kopioimisella. Ravulle parasta seuraa olisi luotettava eikä vähästä reagoiva kumppani. Ravun ihmissuhteet ovat läheiset ja ne ovat pitkäikäisiä. Rapu harvoin eroaa (mistään vanhasta) esineistä, asioista tai ihmisistä, vaikka olisi aihettakin.

Onnistunut egosta irrottautuminen olisi; ”yhteenkuuluvuuden tunteen takia en halua enää passata muita, en edes siksi, että he joskus huolehtisivat minusta. En odota enää muiden myötäilevän minun tunnetilojani. Tunteet ovat vain väline, kehotalouteni tarpeiden säätelijänä ja niiden tuntemusten tuntijoita. Tunteet sinänsä eivät ole itsetarkoituksellisesti tavoiteltava olotila. Myöskään rakkaus ei ole tunnetta! Rakkaus on pyyteetöntä, eivätkä tunteet ole pyytettömiä.”

*Jännä,  nyt taas ymmärsin vähän miksi olin ravun kanssa, vaikka ainakin 3 kertaa osoittautui huonoksi ideaksi. He siis pohjimmiltaan ymmärtävät tunteiden olevan näyttelemistä, vaikka tunteilevat paljon.. se on heidän "aikaansaamistaan".

[Esmiralda]

Tässä yksi humpsunen rapu!  Paitsi en ihan humpsunen ole. Vieläkin meikkaan töihin mennessä, mietin asua, miten voin olla rento ja kuitenkin mukavan kodikkaan näköinen. Ajattelen, että ulkonäölläkin voi luoda ilmapiiriä vaikka sitten kotoisan tuntoiseksi.

Mutta yhden asian olen oppinut! Minulla on päällikkönä oinas, joka on selvästi jotakin voimakasta vesielementtiä kantava, koska hän ottaa kaiken negatiivisen itseensä, ahdistuu ja voi saada raivokohtauksen. Kuitenkin hän on se, jolle pitäisi kertoa kaikki vaikeudet. Mietin, onko se Oinas, joka ottaa kaikki omaan napaansa, vaikka asiat on 'vain' työasioita.

Ja huomaan itsessäni erään ihailtavan seikan, jonka oikeastaan olen perinnyt mummoltani (josta en oikeastaan tykännyt). Kun tulee vaikeuksia varsinkin tunnesektorilla, luon suojaavan kuplan ympärilleni enkä päästä tunteita sen sisään varsinkaan silloin, kun ne eivät kuulu henkilökohtaisesti minulle. Kun asiat ovat pikkuisen intiimireviirini ulkopuolella, niitä on helpompi käsitellä sekä järjen että empatian kanssa.

Olen huomannut että skorpionipoikani taitaa saman jutun.

Olisko se tosiaan perinnöllistä?

Mutta siten 'vesiolennot' pärjäävät tässä maailmassa. Mutta...jos rapu ottaa kilven intiimeissäkin asioissa tällä tavalla eivätkä jätä aseitaan sinne asehuoneeseen, kuten entisvanhaan kirkkoon mennessä tehtiin, niin onpa sotkua rakkaudessa! 

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

onpas ravuilla somaa, minun vai kenen kanssa. tänään luki että joku haluaa hemmotella rapuja, mutten kutsu sitä viime vuoden bileisiin.. itseäkään ei oikein huvita..

jep. jonkun kiinnostuksen kohde voi aina olla muistakin kiinnostunut; näin on.

Your Lovescope - Tomorrow, November 28, 2008
Books, newspaper stories, or magazine articles regarding spiritual or metaphysical subjects could capture both your interest and that of your significant other today. You and your friend might therefore have a lot of interesting discussions, though some of your ideas might be rather outrageous. Still, these shared spiritual pursuits are more than likely to strengthen the bond between you. Make the most of it!

Your Lovescope - November 2008
You like to attract romantic interest, but you resent a lover's interest in any other person. This can create a high degree of drama in your personal life early this month. There's a danger of using sex as a weapon to get what you want. View this as a short-term fix, not a long-term solution. Around November 15, if you're in a situation that's on the edge of break-up, make an effort to understand what your part has been in creating the estrangement. Under the New Moon on November 27, the right person for you will spoil you and make the extra effort to create a romantic mood. Although you can seem rather demanding in your need for attention and affection, a true lover will appreciate that you're more than willing to give the same in return.

Sun sign Horoscope - Today, November 29, 2008
   
   You tend to be an easygoing person. You like to avoid conflict whenever it is possible. But sometimes you can be a little too shy. Right now, you could be in a situation where you need to speak up. You might find that a friend is taking advantage of you. Or maybe a colleague doesn't understand your needs. Maybe your romantic partner isn't aware of your feelings. Don't keep everything bottled up inside.

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

Surprising incidents    ***
No other influence is more conducive than this one to sudden upsets, rash behavior and surprising incidents. Energy seems to burst out all over the place and in surprising forms. It is very often difficult to make plans during this time precisely because so much happens without any warning. In its direct psychological expression, that is, when it is not sublimated or converted into a different form of energy, this influence indicates a sudden desire to assert your freedom, to kick away all limitations and break free. A positive use of this energy would be to begin a totally new and innovative project that consumes a great deal of energy and that will be largely identified with you when it is completed. You need to assert your individuality at this time, and this is a constructive way of doing it.

The interpretation above is for your transit selected for today:
Mars Conjunction Uranus, , exact at 06:55
activity period from 28 November 2008 to 1 December 2008

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

 Your Lovescope - Today, November 30, 2008
You should be feeling especially audacious today, and therefore you could very well give in to the impulse to invite a love partner to go away with you. It's unplanned, but there won't be any trouble, and you'll have a lot of fun together. You could have some fascinating experiences that would make it a time to remember. If your friend resists, insist! Have fun!

Your Wellness Scope - Tomorrow, December 1, 2008
You want what you want and you want it now! Today you may experience that quality of yours commonly known as ''impatience.'' The urgency with which you experience certain feelings may overwhelm those around you this week. Try to focus on understanding what you want and putting it into words that let people know how they can help you most. That overpowering celestial energy can be mitigated by language. Another tip: work out your frustration at the gym or on the bike path!

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

Your Lovescope - Tomorrow, December 6, 2008
You should be looking and feeling wonderful, glowing with good health, and with a strong desire for a romantic encounter with a lover. However, other problems might keep you from doing what you want, at least for a while. The astrological configuration can throw obstacles in your way, but if you take care of business quickly you'll fulfill your responsibilities and have time alone with your beloved as well. Enjoy!

Your Lovescope - December 2008
Control issues can raise their nasty little heads for the hypersensitive Cancer this month. You love a storybook romance, and this month, with a trio of planets all spelling out commitment, there's an edge of excitement in the air. The Full Moon on December 12 sees you and your partner wanting to spend time behind closed doors. You have a strong desire to be alone with the one you love, and not only do you want to withdraw from the public, you may want to keep it a secret. Passion and intensity come to the forefront when two heavyweight planets collide on December 27. You, Cancer, are glowing from all the personal attention from your significant other. A now-or-never love energy permeates the end of the month right through the start of the new year.

**jännitystä? olla salainen.. ja joukkarilla oli kans jotain 27. pvsta.. 

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

ravun estot poistuu 2009 vai mitä rapuset?? 

Love and Romance

The romantic world of Cancer will go through many phases of change in the New Year 2009. The Cancers who are already in a relationship may find power struggles slowly crawling in their love life. Your partner is going to demand more involvement from your side in terms of commitment and sexual involvement. It is best to be prepared to meet such demands or things may take an ugly turn and blow out of proportion for the complete year. Jupiter the planet of growth is the 7th house of relationships for the complete 2009. So there is going to be expansion in all the aspects of your love life right from the best to the worst. But then there is Pluto the planet of transformations making 2009 a major period for significant changes in your relationships. The sexual limitations that you felt in 2008 are also completely going to disappear in 2009. The solar eclipse on 6th February 2009 and the Lunar eclipse on 16th August 2009 will be very important periods in 2009 where the Cancer will completely lose itself to pleasure and delight. But try not to get totally involved in sex and love since Neptune is moving in your 8th house of intimacy and making things totally confusing during this period.

**siis hallitsijani menee juuri rapujen seiskaan.. edelleen tulee olemaan 3-4 rapua ympärillä, toiset enemmän toiset vähemmän.

Career and Finance

The Cancer will have all types of financial surprises in the year 2009. There would be sudden income but this will not come from a job or a business venture. But just on the contrary this bonus income would come as a kind of unexpected earning or some kind of inheritance as Neptune is placed in the house of inheritance all through the year. In case the Cancer wins a lottery then it has to be careful on how they spend that money. Even chance earnings have a reason behind them so we need to keep a close watch on what we do with the money we earned. So whether you want to do charity or buy whatever you like or just waste away, 2009 gives you an opportunity to make the best use of your finances.

**kravulla töissä sopuisampaa kuin joukkarilla, jota muutoksen tuulet ravistaa, siis ei "ravustaa" heh

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

Sun sign Horoscope - Today, December 24, 2008
   
   Today your need to socialize could be very strong. You won't want to be alone. Try to arrange some nice gatherings with people. Invite some friends or acquaintances out to lunch and spend some time getting to know each other better. Create more of a feeling of family with your entourage. Or share some drinks with your romantic partner this evening. You'll want to relax and unwind with someone who really cares about you.

**huomaan..

Weekly Horoscope
   
   

Week of December 22, 2008: It looks as though you're going to be spending Christmas with friends and family, some of whom you may not have seen in a while. There will also be a few older members present whom you'll be glad to see. Monday is going to bring a chance to think deeply about one relationship and make a point of letting go of any bitterness that may have caused problems in the past. You have an opportunity to move on and forget the difficulties of the previous year. Make sure you get parcels and cards off early, and don't leave your shopping until the last minute since unexpected events may mean you can't finish it at all. Christmas looks happy and fun. You'll be surrounded by people who have come together to enjoy being part of the family tradition. When Mars moves into your relationship zone on Friday, it will stir things up in this area and begin the process of clearing the air. It will conjunct Pluto on Sunday, so be warned. Don't fly off the handle, as you could end up arguing about everything and nothing. The New Moon on Saturday ushers in a chance to team up with someone and work together quite successfully.

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

   Your Lovescope - Today, December 25, 2008
You generally tend to be more intellectual than emotional by nature, but for the past week or so you've allowed your sensitive side to be more fervent, and you and your current love partner have had some wonderful moments. Now you're focused on the worldly side of relationships. Where do you go from here? Think about it. Remember the past week. Consider all the factors. Then go for it!

   Your LovescopeThis Week
Your thoughts are about home, hearth, and happy endings for most of the week, and you come close to achieving them. All is well in the area of romance on this last week of the year. As the most nurturing of the signs, you're ready to settle in this week and pamper your partner. Meanwhile, unattached Cancers are attracting new eyes with the glow of a red-hot aura. There could be an encounter that alleviates any loneliness you may have been feeling. Saturday and Sunday are the big days this week, days when a fire that has been ignited burns hotter. A trio of planetary aspects (and these are the heavyweights) spells excitement and adds this ingredient to the cosmic stew. This is the weekend for the single Cancer to be out mingling; the stage is set for romance. Sunday's New Moon falls in the house of your partner. It could be a magical day.

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

CANCER MONEY TENDENCIES

Abundance and Prosperity

CANCER MONEY: Cancer's are tighter than bark on a tree (or should I say, "Tighter than a shell on a crab!") Money to a Cancer means security. There is nothing on the planet more important to the Cancer than security (other than family of course). And this security had better come in the form of money and creature comforts.

Nothing will make a Cancer feel more secure than having lots and lots of money in the bank. Even if they have money in their wallet, they probably won't spend it. They'll sit back and wait to see if someone else is going to pay before burrowing through their wallet and finding their "mad money" tucked away in a "safe and secure" place.

Cancer's should always trust their intuition when it comes to money because they are the most intuitive sign of the zodiac when it comes to feelings. Trust your feelings! Money should come easy to Cancer's and they are never really down and out. There's always money somewhere. They may even tell others they are "broke" or "have no money." What they really mean is they have money and spending it will make them feel uncomfortable and insecure. Cancer's know how to make money. They are quiet little money-makers, rarely bragging about their last sale or financial windfall. Maybe, just maybe they'll tell their partner that sales are up. Cancer's have no problem working for their money.

Cancer's enjoy money and possessions so much that they will often have mounds of "stuff" around the home that they've caught with their pinchers. And those pinchers can hold on tight! They have stuff in the garage, stuff in the closets, stuff in the drawers, maybe even stuff on the back of the couch and a full refrigerator and kitchen cabinets. Stuff is everywhere. Dark and comfey quarters remind them of being in their shell. It's all about "feeling" secure. No wonder their motto is, "I feel, therefore I AM."

Cancer's naturally have a knack for making and keeping money. When they loosen their pinchers from their wallet, typically its to spend money on their home or family. They are cautious about lending money unless of course it is for a member of the family.

MONEY SUGGESTION: Instead of just reading this and saying to yourself, "Oh yeah, that's me," how about getting a handle on your money tendencies and sharing your "stuff" with those less fortunate. When you release some of your unused stuff in the closets, you'll create more room for newer stuff.

[Celesten]

The romantic world of Cancer will go through many phases of change in the New Year 2009. The Cancers who are already in a relationship may find power struggles slowly crawling in their love life. Your partner is going to demand more involvement from your side in terms of commitment and sexual involvement. It is best to be prepared to meet such demands or things may take an ugly turn and blow out of proportion for the complete year. Jupiter the planet of growth is the 7th house of relationships for the complete 2009. So there is going to be expansion in all the aspects of your love life right from the best to the worst. But then there is Pluto the planet of transformations making 2009 a major period for significant changes in your relationships. The sexual limitations that you felt in 2008 are also completely going to disappear in 2009. The solar eclipse on 6th February 2009 and the Lunar eclipse on 16th August 2009 will be very important periods in 2009 where the Cancer will completely lose itself to pleasure and delight. But try not to get totally involved in sex and love since Neptune is moving in your 8th house of intimacy and making things totally confusing during this period.

 

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

hyvä jos krapunen saa asiansa järjestykseen, oli aika turhauttavaa katseltavaa tossa joulukuussa.. mutta sehän ei siis ollut minun tehtäväni. siis ei sillä asiat aivan huonostikaan ole - mutta ei ollut kyllä kunnianhimoa, kosketusta ja kun sanoin kasvusta, tuhahti, että silleen.

kesästä olen vähemmän krapujen kanssa, sitten on    vaikutetta.. ainakin. 

Act quickly    ***
Valid during many months: This influence can help you to reconcile your personal needs with those of others. If you now have the courage and single-mindedness to stick up for your own interests you can expect support from others. Having experienced that acting in your own interests does not have to mean being inconsiderate or reckless will help you greatly in the future. You won't encounter any resistance or rivalry if you stand up for things which correspond to your inner nature.

You may now have to deal with past events which undermined your self-confidence, leaving you feeling weak and inadequate. Such experiences can be extremely painful. In order to avoid similar rejections in the future many people withdraw into themselves, being prepared to go to great lengths to conceal their true feelings. Although this might help them to avoid further pain, it also prevents them from fulfilling their dreams, and decreases their vitality. You might now receive an offer at work or in your personal life which is both tempting and challenging, but also a certain amount of apprehension and trepidation. Do not hesitate! Do not miss this opportunity to finally do something that you have only dreamed of doing up until now. This could be revitalizing, helping you to place more trust in your own instincts. These will take you to the right places at the right times, helping you to express your true self, while enabling you to use your abilities in a way which is beneficial to others.

The interpretation above is for your transit selected for today:
Chiron Trine Ascendant, ,
activity period from end of March 2008 until beginning of November 2009

[täysikuu]

tämä  on ollut kipeänä ja rankasti. Tänään töihin mentyäni olen kokenut uskomattoman upean päivän.
Siis niin upea tarjous ja kaikin puolin muutenkin tälläisiä päiviä lisää. Vaikka mulla onkin tänään   

[^^Queen Nefertiti^^]

Soft lights    
Valid during several months: This influence stimulates your romantic imagination to a considerable degree, making you somewhat unrealistic in your dealings with loved ones. Usually this is not serious; this day may bring pleasant times of soft lights and romantic reveries. Daydreaming is also a characteristic of this influence, which is fine unless it interferes with necessity. In fact, this daydreaming tendency can manifest itself as artistic inspiration. If you are an artist, creativity of a high order can result. In relationships you must be most careful. You may expect your loved one to live up to an impossible romantic ideal that no one could or should try to attain. In most cases this influence has a short effect, constituting a passing mood and not a source of real problems.

The interpretation above is for your transit selected for today:
Venus Square Neptune, , exact at 12:37
activity period from 1 February 2009 until end of April 2009